Itiswhatitis, your comment is hilarious! Dad just splashed in the water--ain't that the truth! My mom always told me that no matter how wonderful a husband is, how helpful or loving, a woman always gets a lion's share of parenting responsibilities--if not all of it. I thought she was full of it until I ended up with an alcoholic husband and a baby. I am the parent and the only stable force in my girl's life. Her dad "just splashes in the water"
. How can men do that, just let us women handle everything ourselves. It's like he knows I'll always be there, so he comes and goes.....