Thanks Sun, No he isn't threatening his grandma, he called 4 times in the space of an hr & went from trying to involve me, to the threat, to trying to make me feel guilty, to apologizing. I heard it all on my answering machine, I had refused to answer the phone after the 1st call.
I think I may call my ex & ask if his son can call him.......maybe that is what my HP has planned...............why else did he call me now after almost 30 yrs. Maybe he can get through to him or help him some way. He has never been there for his son so maybe now is his chance to do something for him.
thanks everyone for your help
Love,
Diane