Ok I'll try to condense it....I'm desperate
How do I let go? I live with a medicated bi-polar. He abuses alcohol. He knows it. He has been going to counseling (2 different dr's). I reached my breaking point and told him to move out a few weeks ago. He has not drank since. Except for today. He is at his sister's house. She recently got out of rehab for opiates. She is concerned and knows of his problems too, but she is still really fresh out of her own problems. When he called to tell me he would be there for a while I could tell he was drunk and she was laughin in the background (I think she has switched to alcohol). I try so hard to trust him, but my childhood w/an alcoholic mother has made me hyper-sensitive. He now likes to turn it around and make it MY problem, (I have the baggage according to him) I need therapy (which I probably do). But that doesn't negate the fact that he has a problem.