See I mentioned it to my male buddy at work. Told him whole history, from high school fling, to at 21 and I was attached he came over we talked of old times cried together and he cuddled up and slept like my teddy bear, then 2 years later him running into me at the bar and telling other guy to leave maybe Ill go with him, then 2 years later 1st husband going to prison, he came over, sat on couch just listened was my buddy and left, called a year later I was with AH and that was it. Buddy from work jokes he's been waiting for me all these years