I'm still learning to set boundries. I don't know if my daughter is dead or alive, so right now there are none to set! She knew when she left that I would not allow drugs or her drug friends around and I would NOT give her money for any reason. I still have a problem w/ taking care of me, I'm so used to being the mother and taking care of everyone else, plus I'm a nurse and take care of people there too!
Right now I feel like the best boundry is no contact at all! Tomorrow I'm sure I'll be sad and miserable again.
susan