In my experience, it didnt matter who was bailing him out or sending him money via Western Union or paying his rent or whatever.
Someone was enabling him.
He didnt care who it was.
Who cares what the Mothers say? They do what they do out of love
Yep, loving someone to death. That doesnt make enabling a good thing, bc its done out of love.
it shouldn't affect your recovery in any way.
I like your theory Sun..but its hard sometimes!