Hi jsjam,
I just wanted you to know that I understand all that you're feeling and I do care. I hope that you will be able to let your son deal with the consequences of his own choices. I'm personally not strong enough to do that all of the time. Right now is one of those times. I know that it would be better for him if I could do it. I will be thinking of you and your son. ((((((((((Caring Hugs)))))))))))