Tiburon,
I've always been sensitive to older guys telling me what to do. One of my major resentments is against authority. I hate unsolicited advice, especially if I feel I'm being looked down upon.
I know that I am often over sensitive to stuff like this. I know that sometimes I mis-interpret other people's attempts at helping me. My fear, pride and selfishness can really get in the way of me relating to others in AA. I also have a chronic problem of isolating myself.
There are bullies in AA, just as there are in all other parts of society. I have a hard time figuring out when I'm being bullied or if I'm being parinoid.
I guess all we can do is take the good stuff and leave the bad stuff.
Just don't let anyone take your seat away, or stop you from recovery. I'm glad you can get this out in the forum. SR is a great place to vent.
chip