I am sorry you are feeling bullied...sometimes it really does seem that way. I wish I could give you some sound advice...but I am feeling unusually Surly tonight and any advice I give right now might get you in trouble.
You can always tell them you are working on step one and yes you have a sponsor, which is a good thing, becuase after talking to them you will need to talk to someone sane!!! (see..I should have left after the first paragraph, please forgive me)
Cathy...AKA: SRH