Do I have to split with hubby
to actually detach? we currently live seperatly but we still are linked finanically and we still see each other, I do my thing and he does his thing which includes frequent replapses, I am tryign to look after myself but as we are still linked its hard to cut all ties, I dont want to give up all hope but do I have to split to detach competley? hes back in hospital again and I didnt stay I went to work and I think he thinks I was a bit mean but I just couldnt stay and be false as I have before?