I use to snoop all the time - for drugs, cell phone anything. Someone said to me if I find something what am I going to do with the information. I did stop snooping, it totally drained me at times.
We never had credit cards with each other on the account. I took all the money that was left out of the bank and put it in my name. I should have done it sooner.
It was like I had to snoop to find something - but then would find something and be so upset.