Thank you all for your insight and suggestons. I have attended Al-anon before and occasionally accompanied my mother to one of her nightly AA meetings. They always provide encouraging and uplifting messages. Not just applicable to sobriety, but to all of life's little curveballs. We began our two weeks of purposeful incommunication on Mon. and I want to be as well prepared as possible to make the most rational decision.
As far as I can remember, there was never a problem of me being codependent with a partner, but, it seems that may be the case now because I'm going a little crazy wondering if I have lost her.
I try and tell myself it's all up to God now and really there is nothing I can do. If she wants to talk to me, she knows how to find me. BUt it's so hard not to worry.
Thanks again everyone for sharing
Matt