Hi.... there you are. I was afraid we were going to loose you in that other post.
Welcome to SR..... I cant give you advice but I can share with you my ES&H...
Have you considered Al-anon or ACoA??? seems that you have alot of Alcoholism following you around in life. I did want to say that...
You can not "drive" her to drink. Your just not that powerful.... if she drinks again or not is entirely up to her. You never have to feel responsible for her soberity.
Stick around, get to know us, read the stickies.... I look forward to getting to know you.