Originally Posted by
TroubledNC 
How do you work at overcoming the resentment and anger?
By attending those Al-Anon meetings and working a 12 Step program of recovery, and by talking to other people just like yourself? You can do this, it does get easier, but you can't do it alone. The good news is there's plenty of great people in recovery who will help you if you reach out. So attend that Al-Anon meeting and look around at the people who are finding a path to peace.
You're already paying the price, why not reach out and take the help that's freely offered to you?