Originally Posted by Rowan

You asked how you could tell your fiance and family that you want to quit (in light of the fact that you'd told them this before).
When I quit 'for good', I wanted to shout from the rooftops 'I'm sober!' but people close to me wouldn't and/or didn't believe me. So, I let my decision show in my actions. I made a promise to myself that I was going to change my way of living - and I did. After a bit of time, I was able to talk to a couple of friends and share what had happened - they had already seen the change.