Originally Posted by
nolongerdrunk 
How do I tell my fiance and family that I want to quit, though, when they've heard it so many times before? They won't believe me. I go in phases. This time needs to be for good, though.
As I said in my post, I couldn't tell my parents today... and I think I realised thats because I don't actually want to get sober for them (well I do...) but its for me first and foremost. Obviously those people will need to know and be supportive of us, but maybe they will realise the extent after we have worked on us a bit... I'm afraid of what my best mate will say because he drinks just as much on binges and we encourage each other to get really do drunk and do shots etc.