Hopeangel:
your life sounds alot like mine and my husbands, he is setting himself up for a really fun weekend of partying with his buddies and just told his coworkers in front of me how he was talking with one of his friends wives and told her to leave him at home and just bring herself, then after nobody in the room reacted, it was complete silence he backpeddled and said he was only kidding to her. I live with his flirtations and sexist remarks daily, and it only gets worse when he is drunk and high. I am detaching from this man emotionally without saying a word to him, no nagging about drinking and drugs, and really trying to concentrate on MY and my kids life. It has taken 18 years but I guess every one is different on how much they can tolerate. I was hoping for him to mellow out and become a real husband instead of leading a double life and pretending that everything is ok, I can't live a lie any longer. I have to be honest with myself, for myself.