Thanks to everyone for their help and good advise. He moved out a few months ago and we are getting divorced. Believe me when I tell you I have had enough. I just don't want to see anything happpen to him. Together or not. Its hard to just sit back and watch him throw all he has down the drain.
I'm getting on with my life and I'm alot happier and more at peace ,but in my heart I feel I have to still try. Hopefully one day I will get through to him. I don't know.