putting someone in the hospital and walking away to let the pros have a look at him for a while is not getting sucked back in--they say now some As do not need to bottom out---i am not saying hold his hand and sit with him I am saying--if he calls threatens to take his life----is incoherant---call 911---they will take him to the ER---probably admit him for evaluation---you will be doing him a favor---then you can walk away knowing you handled this like a mature adult---he called he was suicidal--you sent the cops---he won't call you again after that---and if he is mentally unbalanced what harm have you done?
What he wants is for her to keep taking his calls and feeling guilty about his condition.....if he is suicidal--thats not enabling him--he is still a human being--and if he is a danger to himself---he needs to be off the streets///