Elana,
Having worked hard to climb to a safe spot (emotionally, spiritually, physically) there is sometimes a very fine line between being relieved and grateful for "where you've got to" and being arrogant about it.
I, for one, have never really noticed you do the latter since joining this board. You have always been willing to brace your feet and reach down a strong hand to help the rest of us climb too.
But you know yourself and know your own mind, and if this is something you wish to work on, then it's the right thing to work on. I think you may find that practicing humility (love that Mother Teresa stuff, Greet) allows you to help more people along on our collective journey....and makes life not nearly so lonesome.
Strength to you, friend out there,
GL