neg, i also haven't yet attended al anon... i think i will at some point but it's just not something i'm interested in right now, but like you, i've been able to move forward without it. it's not for everyone. it sounds like you're doing such amazing things for yourself. i know that you are someone whose posts i often enjoy reading because it makes me see what i have to look forward to in terms of my own recovery. i think you're doing wonderfully, and i'm jealous
