welcome to sr, azure.......
everyone has made good points.....i also think that quitting is something you need to do for yourself......supporting your husband is a beautiful thing, but since you realise you have your own alcohol problem, you should think of the reasons you need to quit......decide the best way for you to get sober, and focus on yourself a little bit.......if you come up with your own reasons and a desire to quit for you, you may get rid of some of the resentment you are feeling right now........
good luck
ayla