my husband started with the mental health ward and they found him a place. maybe you could check with salvation army, or maybe check on some halfway houses, he can continue to work and pay his own way. there is always aa, na meetings where there are people who maybe able to direct him to reccommend places that he may be able to go. glad to hear that he wants to go, this does make a big difference. sorry that you are having the trouble that you are having, i think that i would just keep searching, somethings is bound to come up. still praying for you and yours.