Me, I was born independent, it was just too bad I was born a girl instead of a boy, then everything would have been ok.
I have always taken care of me, even as a child, had to.
Many times a man feels threatened by a womans independence, I say "Tough
Dingleberries" today we woman need to be independent. Over 60% of all households are led by a woman. The guy is MIA for one reason or another.
I can love a man, he can love me, but, I will take care of me. Manage my own money, have my own house, my own car and my own visions.
I just cannot be a woman of yesterday, walking 3 steps behind a man, just won't happen.
To me, you sound just fine, wouldn't give his words a second thought, if he feels that way, it is his problem not yours.
Women like you empower others, be proud of you. I know I am.
Love,
Dolly