Yes, my ex threatened and was ready to follow thru with a loaded .45
I called the police, and a big damn "situation" ensued ... a whole lot of drama with a decent result. He got some help, and I got some peace of mind and more healing as I learned to detach from his disease and actions.
It was another in a series of cries for help from someone who wanted help but didn't want it. ONLY people who are here on these boards or in face to face meetings know what I mean.
He got some help because it was his time. He slipped again, and got more help, and he's still on a good path as far as I can tell.
Just like everything else associated with this disease, I didn't cause it, I can't control it and I can't cure it. I did what I had to do to be OK, and then I stepped out of the situation to allow him the dignity to deal with the consequences of his actions.
It's not easy,but it works. Take extra good care of you!
~Cat