(((((((2Many & family))))))))
I am sending prayers and love for everyone who has to deal with Issabelle...but will send up a little special one for you...I have never been in one so have no experience with it...however I can relate somewhat with where you are in your situation , of need some R&R and also wanting another adult around even without the storm...You are one fine lady to be dealing with all this so well...At this point (if I were there) I 'd probably be eating everything in sight, running in circles and saying to myself (when I remembered it) "First things First!"
It seems to me, If you want to help your childern, you need to take care of your needs first...sooo having said that if you'd feel better with him there, go for it...The storm won't last forever and you can make it clear that when it's over, he's to leave...Try not to worry about WHY he's doing the things he is doing...They are his kids too so why shouldn't he help...Just my opinion for what it's worth..
BE SAFE!
Take care and God Bless.