Originally Posted by
INLOVEWITHCH 
SOMETIMES its the ones that don't think your A has a problem and they "feed" it.
You are dead on with this one, inlove. I hid my AH's addiction so well for so long that he is now able to convince perfectly rational, intelligent people that I am the one that is crazy. I know it won't last with most of them because A's will eventually blow their cover; the problem is when the A finds that one person that is so codependent (and doesn't even know what that word means) that they pick up where we left off. Then its off to the races.
It is just insanity.