I agree if the calls are making u weak dont accept them. You need to stay strong and focus on you not him. He did this to himself. If you bail him out he wont just go on probation they will release him and he will go back out and use until the court decides probation thats not his choice to make. If you bail him out thats all you have done nothing for him but get him out of jail and what if he runs your out that money. Dont chance it hes lying to you about all that bs. Stay strong and once he starts putting on the guilt trip just hang up. NOne of this would have happend if he decided to stay the night with you instead of his "buddies" who are only his buddies when hes got drugs and money!! Good friends huh. Call them and give them the guilt trip I'm sure they have long forgotten about him til the next time he has money.