Yep, I have heard the "I drank when you met me" line many a time!!!!
Daisy, when it gets to be too much for YOU, then you will know and will do whatever it is that needs to be done. I know how frustrated you are...they just keep telling us all of these "lies", like we are gonna believe them ! I finally had enough of it........it has taken me a LONG time, and I still seem to go back for more.
Just know that you are not alone here.........