Thank you all. As suggested, I will remain open. I'm actually going to a meeting tonight with a dear friend's husband who is an addictions counsellor here in the area. I will discuss my concerns with him. He recovered in AA here but actually no longer attends other than to bring people on occasion. He was in the program many years but has found he is much too busy now to be of much service other than his continuing work with alcoholics and addicts thru employment.
As far as no major changes..I certainly understand..but believe me, had I not left I would have drank. I know that.