Hi there Queen....well you could just start looking online for that job in the location you spoke of...call those places and get their fax numbers and get your resume to several places...start putting some money aside in an account privately...its slow but sure...
I remember when my XAH lied to me and you're right it does insult ones intelligence doesnt it? Why they do what they do we will never understand but it sucks...
I am sorry your feeling this pain tonight and I hope you find the strength to forge ahead because nuthin changes if nuthin changes....Its always hard when we hit our bottom before they hit theirs and the only advice I can give you right now is plan a course of action and stay the course hun...
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