Hi. Just asked RAH. He said because it interrupted his buzz, and #2 But his worst was that it made him feel guilty, which made him use more ad stay gone longer. See, we think that when we call them they are gonna be like.."oh wow, I love this person, I should go home" But actually it does the opposite. Then they have to come up with lies and schemes...and hon, if you live through what I lived through...you've heard them all. But they would rather wait it out and at the last possible second ( 5 hours, 10 hours,36hoursetc, etc, etc....) and then they call.
Hon, I am sorry that you are going through this. The dialing and dialing and dialing made me so nuts. We don;t have a cell phone to this day. The "The Nextel subsriber you are trying to reach is unavailable to take your call" kiled me.