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Old 03-20-2007, 09:46 AM
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teej
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There's not hardly enough time in the day to get to know yourself, let alone someone new.
I'm married. But if I were single, I would stick to this suggestion, now matter how much I longed for intimacy. See, in a new relationship, that new person is ALL you can think about. Twas for me anyway. How could I have time to think about MY own self? And learn about the new me? You only have a little over 9 months left (way to go by the way on 79 days!!) and that will go by fast if you busy yourself with getting to know the new you, and learning all of the tools to stay sober, so when you do meet that person, you will be ready.
Just buy some naughty movies & lotion, that will take care of the sex part. Hang out with sober friends and have some fun once in a while.
If you DO date, make sure you save back lots and lots of time for YOU and your program.
Thats my 2 cents.
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