aGrandma,
Same here, my AH is a great husband, father, grandfather, etc. He also doesn't lie, cheat or steal and helps around the house. He also has alcoholic liver disease, but will not stop drinking. He drinks about 12-15 beers every day, but is a kind, wonderful man who would do anything for his family. And the only thing he does when he's drunk is be drunk. He's a mush, loves to cuddle, tells me he loves me, etc. But I just sometimes can't handle a drunk. But I love him, and I hope to stay with him forever (even tho at times forever can't come quick enough).
QT