i think this is a good sign and i am cheering you on. praying for you too. you know, i remember the hard time my rah and i had getting through all those charges i had yrs ago with the bad checks and even now, my ah is having to report to probation and have pending charges still for the same offense, that he pick up after prison, so i do understand what your h feels but i also understand what its like for you.
it took time for me, but one day at a time we got through it all. glad to hear that its being more peaceful for you today.