Another addiction hater here...
So, may I ask, why are you considering dating at this point? It seems to me that time for and by yourself might be in order. You are so angry, and I certainly relate, but wouldn't it be healthier - nay safer - to work on your own recovery at this point?
I'm still with my husband, but I couldn't imagine stepping out there if we weren't. I am the poster child for enabling, controlling etc. right now!
I have so many things to get straightened out on my end...I certainly wouldn't want to attract, so to speak, another addict!
Just interested...
Be blessed, my prayers are with you.