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Old 03-13-2007, 05:21 AM
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chero
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Manipulation and the likes....

I feel so guilty! Last night I know I used manipulation to try and control my AH while he was sober. As if I think it will work or something!? I still can't stop myself from trying. It seems worth it if it works but it always backfires!
I keep reading on here about setting boundaries and having a hands-off approach...what??? How do I do that? All I know is that I hate hate hate the drinking and I'm so desperate to do whatever I can to stop. I know it's coming! I know it and I'm freaking out!!!! What do I do????
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