dell, i am sorry for your pain.it hurts like heck to see our sons the way they are. my a.s. is also going thru somethings right now.it breaks my heart to see him so unhappy but there is not a thing i can do for him & you can't do anything for your son.they have got to find there on way. just letting u know i care & i am sending my prayers for you both.hugs,hop0e