Counselling here is very expensive - I suppose the fixer in me would take out a loan to send him to one if he would go, but I've been to counselling since I married him and found it hard to explain to different counsellors (i tried a few) what I was dealing with. They didnt understand the issues alcoholics struggled with and I spent a lot of money to little if any result.
I think Alanon is my only option...thank heavens its free.
He just had another blowup on the phone..I'm walking on eggshells and have to focus on me. I'm losing myself too, denny.