You let go because you reach a point where you are so physically and mentally exhausted--you just give up--in a way--start thinking of only you for a change--he has to deal with his own problems-you can't fix him.NO MAN has the right to hit you--DO YOU HEAR ME?? I have been through this I know exactly what you mean--TELLSOMEONE ASAP-they will look at it more objectivly and help you--I did --but I let myself be abused for 2 years before I told someone--they got me to see the mess I was in and helped me out.PLEASE LEAVE---you are not safe....The abuse will get worse and worse if you stay...plan your escape--get a lawyer--no need to be embarrased--you will be suprised how many people you know that will tell you'their story" Just look at this one forum --you are not alone....God Bless you and keep you safe....