Glad the party was a success and that you were able to come up with a plan for his son to be at the party. Also glad you got to visit with his family members who it sounds like you are still on good and friendly terms. As for seeing him, I can relate. Through a series of events, my exAH had dinner here tonight with my daughter (home from college) and me. I was in kinda a mess after he left (usual;the dinner itself was nice) but have pulled myself together pretty much. Coming here helps me shift gears faster...hope your evening is peaceful.