I hope that someday I can get to that point TG...right now I know exactly what I will talks about...my mind is constantly going back and forth. But, nothing will work if I AM the only one trying to make it right while the other person sits back and continues his behavior...it will never change. Either I accept it or I leave it. But, I too wish so many times a day, that it would be like it was before...hang in there...you can do it!!