Thanks Jeri. I'm glad if my sharing might have helped you in some way.
'Toxic Radar'....Hmmmm....I like that Denny. I wonder if that's as good as, if not better than 'alcoholic radar'? It has to be better, right?
Lilac, LOL, we've all done that too so don't beat yourself up! Awareness that you're doing it is the key! Sounds like you're aware!