that's my point....about the deep love for our husbands. it's just as deep as for my children, but yet i rid him from my life because of his behaviors, yet i would not do the same to my children.
i can't imagine how this would effect me if it were my child being the addict, and i pray to god i never have to find out.
course, i would not let my children run roughshod over me, either, or try to control my life with the insanity of addiction.
i'm just thinking out loud here....trying to sort through some stuff.