I was actually thinking of, not today, but make a dinner date for me and the kids on monday before the meeting as long as AH brings money in so we could have a little extra to go eat. McDonalds, Bertucci's, where the kids want and then go. It would be something we haven't done in a long time. And if I missed his phone call, many phonecalls, which I do at times, then he would be mad as hell when I get home thinking I was out with someone else. The first alanon meeting I went to he must have called me 8 times. I didn't answer, I just turned the phone off.