oh, mine didn't like it either. well, i didn't like him doing what he was doing, but i couldn't stop him. just like he couldn't stop me from going to al-anon.
i soon came to know that it didn't matter if he liked it or not. it was not about him.....it was about me. he was a grown up with choices to make and he made them. i was a grown up, too, and was free to make my choices, just as he was.
i'm so proud of you....i know it takes courage in the beginning. especially when one has been at the mercy of the alcoholics moods, controls, and behaviors.
go, enjoy, and go again....