told him about 2nd alanon meeting
My AH asked me what I was doing tonight on the phone. I told him I was going to my alanon meeting. All of a sudden things got quiet on his end. I then said to him, I need to go cuz I don't want to be focusing on him all the time with what he does. He then said whatever and hung up.
He's mad I'm going but I'm still going to go. Me and the kids need it. He must have thought going to that first alanon meeting was just a one time thing. I'm going tonight no matter how he reacts even though it's making me anxious already. I don't think he realized it affects us.