I don't think you need to go into details with
anyone who has the bad manners to ask why
are choosing to not drink.
Just order ??? and pretend you don't hear
the rude question.
If they persist..."I don't want to"
As far as business and alcohol
by staying sober and alert
you will come out better in the end.
My social life is with my various
neighbors and family...they do not drink.
I also rely on my wonderful AA friends.
Just my opinion...Take care