I think of Step 11 - Seek through prayer and meditation what God's will is for us, and ask for the power to carry that out. Pray for clarity - clarity to see if this relationship is a good thing or a bad thing. Pray for God to either bless it or block it. Also Step 3 - as we turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, He will lead us into what His will is for us, and lead us away from what his will is not for us.