I've been trying to taper off alcohol (cigarettes not an issue with me)... and it's been difficult. I'm not as far along with it as I wanted to be and I'm starting to think everyone here was right -- that it's just too hard. I've made a little progress, but not much. I'll try a bit longer but I might just have to give up and go cold-turkey. I really wanted to avoid major withdrawals and having to see a doc, etc... but the choice may not end up being mine.
I say we all have to give it a try if we think we can do it. Others telling you it won't work doesn't really mean a thing (though they're just trying to be helpful)... as with everything on *this* alcoholic's journey, I've had to learn the lessons myself. I sure wish I was a better pupil.
Best to you.